Quote Originally Posted by ForteNightshade View Post
The only "rule" for want of a better term I find silly is the whole "you spank it, you tank it" mentality. If you asked someone not to pull ahead of you and they continuously do, have at it then. You've at least tried to work with them. However, just outright refusing to pick up mobs because they aggro'd more isn't accomplishing anything. All you have done is given the healer more work. And no, you aren't "teaching them a lesson." Odds are if they're willing to pull for you, they couldn't care less.

It's kind of the same philosophy as purposefully standing in AoEs because the healer isn't DPSing.
actually in world of diablo 3 or Elders pay to pimp my horse. you can basicly tank in any classes and act like a an ass and still win. this mentality tends to be carryed over to ff14 by those who fled their previous mmo and dont like to be told that common still exists in eorzea. i apply the you pull it you tank it and akwardly enough i see alot of people thinking that the game is built on the same core rules of the game they left and usually end up bitching at me because they died trying to tank in dps or healing gears. while i watched spamming non aggro rotation