Lmao if a DPS thinks they're running the show and setting the pace, they can die to whatever they pull. If I'm the tank, I lead, I'm in the front, I decide how many mobs we fight, and I decide when the boss fight starts. That's why I picked tank. You don't get to hang around in the back as a DPS getting an easy ride through a dungeon until suddenly you get bored or want to be in charge. You don't get to have both.

If you want to pull, queue as tank. Every role has their place in a duty. Learn yours.