Quote Originally Posted by Nora_of_Mira View Post
It would be absurd to ask people their age before talking to them, like imagine going "hey are you under 18?" as an introduction (assuming you're over 18 as most players are). You would just come off as a creep very quickly. My point was to highlight the absurdity of the proposed suggestion "hey guys, we should be a bit nicer because kids could be playing this game". How do we actively know who kids are? we cant, because any identifier would be instantly problematic. that was the joke point i was making.

So we're back to what you said, "why cant you just not be rude?". To answer you honestly, I try really hard not be be rude in-game because I treat it the same way I treat being in public locations IRL. But the thing is with MMOs is that its sort of a blend between a personal game and a public social area, where you kind of treat it like "this is my fun/relaxation time, i can do w/e i want" and a public social area where anyone can come and go as they please there's sort of a "public responsibility" to behave. Its a fine line to walk if you want to treat it like both and NOT come off as rude to someone eventually, you cannot control how people will interpret your words or actions. Im getting off track..it was just a joke.
Exactly. I try my best to be very polite and well meaning in everything I say, but sometimes I just lose my cool and I get angry. Not ToS breaching angry, but I'll just ragequit a duty usually. I'm trying to hold back against an ex actually that I met through this game, she's done some not very nice things to me since we broke up (to the point that she was told off by the officers of her FC for how she'd acted, and a mutual friend of ours is still angry at her like 3 weeks on). I want to rip her a new one, but trying to stay civil instead.

As for the OP... I suggest supervision.I would go as far as to suggest that ANYONE under 25 (yes, twenty five) is supervised by a parent (if possible, else a trusted friend). Even at 28, there are times I find myself clamouring for a friend to run duties with to have my back.