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  1. #151
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    Floortank's Avatar
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    Kaska Onerys
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    Balmung
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    Dragoon Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by van_arn View Post
    There's nothing improper about this kick. A majority of those in the party didn't want them there, so they were removed. This is preferable to people being forced to run with people they don't like, whether or not this comes as an inconvenience to the person that got removed.

    Don't believe the OP, either. We're plainly not getting the whole story, and the fact an image exists tells me there's a good chance the OP themselves was engaging in outright harassing behavior after the kick.
    *jaw drops*
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  2. #152
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    van_arn's Avatar
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    Van Arn
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    Goblin
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    Samurai Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by TheLittlestLala View Post
    First of all the people who kicked me are on my server and both in the same FC.

    Secondly he pmed me first after I was telling people at the car pile the funny story about how I got kicked from a dungeon because of my attack noises.

    Thirdly the dungeon was The Tam-Tara Deepcroft and I cleared Final Omega savage so I can tell you right now it wasn't under-performance.

    The entire conversation was started with him telling me "that's a good way to get blocked" after I /surprised the DC'd healer, me saying nothing until he told me to "fucking stop" while I was doing the 2 attacks I have as a warrior at that level and me having to explain to him that those sounds are from my attacks. After a period of nobody saying anything I got kicked.

    No offense but coming in here acting like you know what happened with utmost certainty kind of just makes you look like a pretentious jerk.
    I simply don't believe people complaining on the forums, because more often than not they selectively edit the scenario to make themselves look blameless.
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  3. #153
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    TheLittlestLala's Avatar
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    Little Mcsmall
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    Leviathan
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    Quote Originally Posted by van_arn View Post
    I simply don't believe people complaining on the forums, because more often than not they selectively edit the scenario to make themselves look blameless.

    I don't know what else to say except you clearly haven't been paying attention to the world if you believe people can't legitimately be this petty, especially in an MMO where someone is disconnected from real world consequences.

    I didn't even post this thread to complain originally I just thought people would be amused by how absurd this was. I don't know what you gain from pretending you know better about what happened than I do.
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    Last edited by TheLittlestLala; 07-17-2019 at 02:11 AM.

  4. #154
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    HyoMinPark's Avatar
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    Hyomin Park
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    Cactuar
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    Sage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Noitems View Post
    My take on that is something I've said earlier. Doing nothing and letting it pass without action (while saying one of these phrases) when you clearly know something is wrong is just a classy way of allowing this behavior to run through unchecked. I know you've personally stated in this thread that you don't let these things get to you, but you've also stated in this thread that you also vented to your friends about people doing things like this before. You say they're not worth your time, but they're also worth enough to vent over as well? The moment you go into that Duty Finder thread and post a blurb about them you're making time for them whether you want to admit it or not.

    My final post here is going to be super simple and it's a reverb of the morality of the thread as a whole. If you see something that you clearly think is an issue/happens to you, (harassment, vote kicking abuse, slander, etc) just report it, blacklist, and move on. The entire report process takes under 2 min and it's better for the community. If your opinion on the issue compels you enough to make a thread in the forums about it or post in the duty finder story thread , it's worth a GM's attention if they're breaking the ToS. No one is mandating you report every single thing in the universe that happens while you play (as people said it would be just filing reports all day long), but if it's something clear and obvious abuse like the OP's situation it should be reported.
    The mistake you’re making is you’re conflating me spending five minutes telling my friends or writing a post in the Tales thread about “Wow I just met someone really dumb in X Duty” and laughing with them about it with me letting it bother me/get under my skin. They are not the same thing. I have my five minute vent and then literally forget about it. Maybe I’ll recall it later for a laugh, but that’s not the same as letting it bother me.
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  5. #155
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    van_arn's Avatar
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    Van Arn
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheLittlestLala View Post

    I don't know what else to say except you clearly haven't been paying attention to the world if you believe people can't legitimately be this petty, especially in an MMO where someone is disconnected from real world consequences.

    I didn't even post this thread to complain originally I just thought people would be amused by how absurd this was. I don't know what you gain from pretending you know better about what happened than I do.
    Even if you are blameless, and yes I notice you haven't provided full logs, I'd rather people go through with a kick than suffer through a run with someone they simply don't get along with.

    An annoying voice is a stupid reason, but a stupid reason with enough votes for it to go through still means you were not welcome in that group.

    Take the L and move on.
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  6. #156
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    LyraKuroneko's Avatar
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    Lyra Kuroneko
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    Hyperion
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    Samurai Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by van_arn View Post
    Even if you are blameless, and yes I notice you haven't provided full logs, I'd rather people go through with a kick than suffer through a run with someone they simply don't get along with.

    An annoying voice is a stupid reason, but a stupid reason with enough votes for it to go through still means you were not welcome in that group.

    Take the L and move on.
    So if I ever see you you in a dungeon I can ask a votekick because you're saying bs here?

    I think not no... We're supposed to not be 3yo.
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  7. #157
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    van_arn's Avatar
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    Van Arn
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    Goblin
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    Quote Originally Posted by LyraKuroneko View Post
    So if I ever see you you in a dungeon I can ask a votekick because you're saying bs here?

    I think not no... We're supposed to not be 3yo.
    If you want to, I'd rather you do that ran ever feel you're obligated to keep anyone around you don't want to run with.

    More kicks.
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  8. #158
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    Lyra Kuroneko
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    Hyperion
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    Samurai Lv 100
    You didn't get it huh... Fine I give up.
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  9. #159
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    Gunnar Mel'nik
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    Diabolos
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    Bard Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by van_arn View Post
    Even if you are blameless, and yes I notice you haven't provided full logs, I'd rather people go through with a kick than suffer through a run with someone they simply don't get along with.

    An annoying voice is a stupid reason, but a stupid reason with enough votes for it to go through still means you were not welcome in that group.

    Take the L and move on.
    You sound like a really fun person. Knowing you're on Primal makes me glad to be leaving it once the data center split happens. Promise not to follow me, okay?

    And sorry to the OP. I've seen some pretty suss claims about why people got kicked here that usually result in it being discovered they were lying, but I believe this story. Some people are definitely that petty and rude, and insist the entire game revolves around them.
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  10. #160
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    Quote Originally Posted by LyraKuroneko View Post
    So if I ever see you you in a dungeon I can ask a votekick because you're saying bs here?

    I think not no... We're supposed to not be 3yo.
    Lol it will be a race to see who gets the vote kick option off first.

    Jokes aside I do think if a majority of the voting party agree to remove a player then the reason for removal is valid. Sure one may not like or even approve of the reason, but at the end of day the majority party did agree to the kick.

    As I said before OP you should be proud of the kick it was funny and now you have a cute story to share with people.
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