My SO is hard to understand at times, not the best at conveying feelings. However I did witness them simply rage quitting it once and was outspoken about a thing here and there. I am pretty sure it is being ran for others stating here, just to get level 20 so they are not left behind. There is a few times they thank me for coming so i keep going. They did their fare share in helping me with other things so it is all good. Plus my main motivation of playing this game is to be with friends (going back to ffxi too) if it was not for that, most likely i would not be playing. I do have a view the game is having trouble standing on its own, and more played because others do.
Also yeah I have an issues with people insulting others and or twisting arguments for their own personal objectives. One person that publicly stated they blacklist me was for me quoting them word for word (like how I quoted you, quoted the original message) I did this for 2 different posts for this person in question made, I compared them, said I was confused that they gave conflicting messages. After I did this the person claimed I was saying they where insulting the forums and putting words in their mouth???????????????? Then ofc you have that praise diadem 3.0 thread, the first reply to it was a post calling people that dislike it fools, then finally ofc I am sure it is in your recent memory someone ranting about people that dislike diadem 3.0 when it was just made to comment on SE dev communication problems.
I still do not understand, to this second, about why people don't understand my time investment comments. This is twisted or misunderstood by people that like it a lot when I say it takes too much time in one sitting to make progress. in HW/ARR relics I can spend 10 mins, or 20 mins running a dungeon, craft/ gather a little, etc etc to make progress. in diadem 3.0, it takes 5-10 mins to do anything (find party, get in fate train, etc, it takes a bit to actually start your progress. Even with AoE farm strat you still need be there a min 30 mins + and me and SO is always 1 hr +, that is what i hate with the time investments, I do not care if it is much quicker to complete, I do not like the large time investment you need to get progress on it and the backwards idea in progressing (presenting people wiht a mountain when they first step in, this is not how you do ANYTHING!) As I explained here:
the time sink upfront cost is too high and very demotivating. This logic is not even applied to video games but music, movies, a lot of things take a lesson from this basic idea. Do not present too much at once.
Post hoc ergo propter hoc
Also Alleo this is another thing I dislike about people that like diadem 3.0, they barrage with fallacy arguments its overwhelming.
People are different, I have a much higher tolerance then you when it comes forcing myself to do stuff I do not like. I doono if i should say this but I will and hope its not too strong. I do not like this conversation as well, but I do it anyway because I feel finding a resolve is more important then my personal feelings.




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