Sure the skin of the future gear may be different but it doesn't change the fact that you currently need to spend an insane amount of time grinding to obtain something that is no different than what you can obtain elsewhere and more easily. The old relics were criticized for that fact as well. And I'm not only talking about skins here but also about the entertainment factor of getting the new item. As it stand, it is simply dull and boring, and people are generally tired of that.
I don't think you understood my post.I'd say 2.0. But the backlash on Titan was so hard that they toned down everything after that.
And how would that be an issue ? As you said yourself " that way, if you want the truly best gear, you have to do every content and not only raiding." A new player would only have to prioritize and there could be ways to ensure anyone willing can obtain the items. Plus it is not your job nor mine to come up with potential effects on gear.They would only be mandatory if you want the absolute perfect character, for which the raid/relic weapons are already "mandatory". However, if Berserk was only changed to auto-crit and the auto-DH was put on the WAR new relic, every WAR would have gladly rushed to Eureka...
I actually think there would be far less complaining, because that way you'd know you'd be grinding for a reason. It could also just change the skin of your spells/WS like the legendary weapons in GW2. Here again they don't even do that because SE doesn't seem to want putting a lot of money in FFXIV (it is far more profitable to design cosmetic items to sell in the cash shop).
As an example I grinded for the first relic back in ARR, because I believed the last step would have something special. That wasn't the case so I didn't grind in HW. Also, they don't need to make the weapon the "best" just to try to find a way to make these item exciting, the way they were in FFXI. Nobody complained about the gear in FFXI. Arguably how the gear was designed was probably one of the best success of FFXI, one SE didn't try to capitalize on.