A lot of people dont like to play Tank -

[Faeon]

I feel like that's really true... but the reverse is true as well. More often than not, either it's DPSs blaming tank, tank blaming heal, heal blaming whoever, or tank and heal blaming DPS... But it's more a "not my fault, it's his" than anything, I guess... Still, that toxicity is the root of many problems, I think.

this is the internet, some players are always going to be that way, if you are easily butt hurt or can't take the pressure then tank is not for you. simple as that really, you need to just shrug it off and take in the good criticism and shrug off the bad.