This probably sounds dumb to a lot of the hardcore players, but with any MMORPG I don't care what is meta, me and my friends will play what we enjoy and go through the games content that way. And I've met dozens of people that feel the same way, most of them becoming good friends I play other MMOs with now or we've joined guilds that carry that idea. I'm not looking to be the best, I'm looking to enjoy the game. I know this isn't a solution, but I hope you focus on enjoying your playtime instead of worrying if you're going to meet anyone's expectations. And trust me, you're not worthless no matter what you play and don't let anyone ruin the game from you because "hurrr the X job is best right now I demand you play that or you can't join us in this raid!"