If you need a parser to tell you how good or bad you are playing then you probably suck. There are plenty of things in game to let you know when you are doing well.

This isn't a MOBA with second by second feedback. It's a casual MMO who's only real endgame is glamor; because we all know that in a few months that item(s) you worked so hard to get will be obsolete.

Currently I'm kicking myself for trying to get all i340 gear now that i350 will be the new big thing. Most people know that this is going to happen so they don't try that hard.

Or they are trolling you, until you feel the need to shout into an echo chamber.