I saw so many posts in this thread about how stressful pulling is. And i really cant understand why. Ive been tanking here for quite a while, and in other games too, like WoW. Pulling is pulling. You pull mobs, you might lose mobs for a sec, you pull mobs back if so. You check the strength of your healer(as well as yours) in handling groups on the first pull and then adjust the size/speed of pulls appropriately for the rest of the dungeon. It is not really about the pulling or tanking in general, but its your real life stress translating into the game. Like chains, reaching all the way from the real world to the virtual one. Break those chains and stop worrying about what you pull and what you dont, enjoy the game. And dont give a single fudge if anyone judges you for doing it.