I don't really have much sympathy really. This is how raids have been in all MMO, MOBA, any team game.

I'm forced to play SCH in my static not because I love healing but because I don't suck at it. I'd rather play RDM but no one wants a RDM right now and that's just how it is.

If you want to gear up a class you like sometimes you have to play a class you don't like. It's always been that way.

And please don't tell me "Oh I don't like to heal." Level up BRD then. No one is going to say no to brd, it will always be meta.