Tips on being a mentor but not sounding bossy

[ExVex]

Originally, I thought I'd feel better when I noticed a mentor in the group. Like, oh! This person has a crown. I'll let them know that yes! I am indeed a new player and yes! I may need some mentoring for this instance.

However, some mentors will refuse to speak even when I directly ask, "Am I doing this right?" or "Do you have any advice on how I could do this better?" Like,

plz senpai notice me. take me into your bosom of great wisdom and knowledge.

Then again, that's DF. I don't expect mentors to hold my hand. I understand that they may not have all the answers and they're probably trying to get shit done. I also understand that there are a lot of asshole players that mistreat others. During my experiences as a new player, so far, there were very few mentors willing to reach out to me during and outside of an instance. Nevertheless, they were kind and I greatly appreciated the help.

So, to any of you that are still willing to take the leap of faith and help a sprout out - thank you! ♥