Would you be against or for rewarding good performance in parties?

[Lynart]

filter yourself, add competent people to your FC/LS/Friend's List and run stuff mostly with people you know.

That requires effort on my part. MMORPGs are not my only past time.

I don't have the time or commit necessary to follow a static as the main tank; nor do I want to let anyone down being a flaky MT.

...maybe the end result is that MMORPGs are not just for me and I'm staring at them with rose tinted goggles of the me from high school with far more free time.