Well, if thats how your doing it, no wonder you have the need to wait around. The rest of us ACTUALLY interact. We have friends of various DoL/H/M/W. We send tells to them or talk to them in LS chat. They offer there services in return for us repairing there items of our speciality, or by savint items then need in there craft wen we grind. We give then are shards, crystals and so forth that we earn.
Other players want to sell all that stuff over priced on the wards, then complain that items we create with those ingredients are expensive.......with no thought in the fact that they caused those high prices by trying to get over with there high ingredient prices. Then complain that we don't beg them to let us fix there stuff.........
One thing is for sure. It is funny how players like yourself complain about how something is so impossibly difficult to get done, when everyone else seems to be abble to accomplich it as if it was second nature.