We're all DDs now >.>

[Paladinleeds]

so....do I:
1) ask them to put effort? then I get rude comments and/or insults.
2) Try to kick them then? See it being rejected and yourself kicked (because these players tend to team up)
3) Stop your healer dps altogether? "Enjoy" a beautiful slow motion dungeon experience.

1) File a report to the GMs if they get rude or start insulting you. I believe that comes under harassment. And reports do work cross-realm. - also cross realm blacklist too (which by the way, did you know about the Contacts tab under social, used it to find a few toxic people from previous groups and blacklist them. Very useful! Just a heads-up incase you didn't know)
2) Yay! A free ticket out of that toxic dungeon for them kicking you, with no penalty either!
3) And if they complain about it, you can go back to one and explain "Well, I'm only matching what you guys are doing. Want me to pick up the pace? Pick yours up too." - if they get rude see point 1 and file a report, if they do 2 you requeue without penalty.

While I agree there's a problem there (though I tend to be laid back about things so I generally don't complain about it), it may also be they're struggling with the class so if they explain politely that they're struggling, we can go from there and try and help them improve. I'll admit I've posted my fair share of rants in the DF tales thread, but here, I figured I'd offer solutions instead.

EDIT: Hmm, it appears my previous post was deleted. Did it auto-remove because one of the people I quoted deleted their message? There's no "Deleted by" trail either... - I would have gone to edit that bit out but the entire post is gone...