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Healer DPS means to me, doing some damaging skills while they have nothing else to do. It is not asking healers to toss their healing skills in the trash and focus only on DPS.

It is 50-50 for me. I have seen healers literally /follow the tank and go afk the entire dungeon because there is nothing to heal. I have seen healers do so much damage it puts some of the DPS to shame. It's honestly a toss up which one you will get when you DF.

The main argument is - why should the DPS and Tanks be expected to participate in 90-100% of the dungeon and perform reasonably well when healers (who have many, powerful DPS skills mind you) participate in 5-10% of the same dungeon and recieve the same rewards?