Self Parsing and rewards system

[Synrin]

It does not matter how many text guides i read and how many video guides i watch when i always have hard to use every skill effectively because i'm not good at doing moving, avoiding enemy AoE, watching their attack gauge, watching own skill cooldown, watching team members HP (as healer), watching every skill slot and watching keyboard and MMO mouse keys to make sure i press right button all same time and that is why i only focus on what i can do the best.

Completely unrelated to the thread, unsure whether you are a troll or not, but if playing Players versus X stresses you out, why bother? XIV offers so many other things like the Gold Saucer, crafting, quests... Especially if you find yourself unable to perform or if you are unwilling to invest a certain amount of time and effort? I sat many hours on the training dummy HAMMERING THAT ROTATION INTO MY HEAD. Do you have the same attitude in real life? Because I cannot see the self-pitying 'you should also feel sorry for me, please ban me but please notice me' attitude getting you that far on any fronts. Do you need help? Because if that is the case please reach out. This is concerning.

[Dualgunner]

Also if you don't want me be here in forums just tell everyone report so i get banned for not be good player like you are and everyone else.

There are fates worse than reporting. No...you'll stay here, stuck in forum hell, posting and whining for our amusement forever.

But, dramallama aside:

You know what else is hard? Being alive. There are so many cognitive processes going on at any one time that multi tasking is just something we get used to doing. And we get used to a set of tasks, like the ones you outline here, through repetition (ie practice). And the adage "Practice makes perfect" is wrong, "Perfect practice makes perfect." is more accurate.

I try to learn what is expected of my job, and do my damndest to perform at that level until performing at that level is second nature. It's not being good, far from it, it's being so damn persistent that you don't even realize you've gotten better when you progress.

[Moomba33]

A standard personal parser and pre-made groups being able to opt in to a public parser seems fair to me. Gives players the tools to improve themselves, groups tackling tough content a tool to see where the group needs to improve, and avoids forcing players into a competitive environment for casual content.
I don't have strong feelings for or against a reward system.

[xJimmehx]

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I had not thought about a party wide parser for pre-mades. That is a great idea.

[Taika]

A standard personal parser and pre-made groups being able to opt in to a public parser seems fair to me.

This is what we need. And I don't think anyone could (should) be against this.