I just got kicked

[Argencia]

So they were nice and friendly.. but you don't feel comfy at least pm'ing someone from the fc to ask what happened or why you were kicked? :P

I dunno! Seems shady!

[Transient_Shadow]

So they were nice and friendly.. but you don't feel comfy at least pm'ing someone from the fc to ask what happened or why you were kicked? :P

I dunno! Seems shady!

I did. I was furious and demanded and answer. and what i got was and I quote "I removed you during the preliminary time, a few people didn't like you and didn't feel like your fit in. thats all."

[Argencia]

I did. I was furious and demanded and answer. and what i got was and I quote "I removed you during the preliminary time, a few people didn't like you and didn't feel like your fit in. thats all."

Sounds like there's the actual reason you were kicked. Though it doesn't show very much tact from the fc that they didn't at least talk to you about it before/after it happened. Sorry to hear you had a bad experience x_x

[Transient_Shadow]

Sounds like there's the actual reason you were kicked. Though it doesn't show very much tact from the fc that they didn't at least talk to you about it before/after it happened. Sorry to hear you had a bad experience x_x

Allow me to explain why this isn't a good reason. In the business world you don't fire someone for "oh billy doesn't like you" that's harassment. I carry my self with dignity and repose. I was never hostile towards anyone, I was helpful ( ran dungeons with our newer members) and I was encouraging when some of our older members wanted to branch out and form their own fc.

the very accusation "you weren't helpful" will not hold up in any world of social propriety. and "some people didn't like you" is more than enough ammunition to file a report. which I did.

[Capriana]

For whatever reason, they don't like you, and by reading your posts I am sorry to say I kind of don't want you in my FC either. I dunno, you rub me the wrong way, don't get offended its just your tone is HOSTILE.

Anyways move on, so what, not everybody has to like you its a MASSIVE MULTIPLAYER ONLINE game, tons of people like you, few dislike and I wager some outright HATE you. Big deal. If there is no harassment or racial slur or bullying, move on. Geez.

[LalaRu]

Allow me to explain why this isn't a good reason.

They told you the reason and you still want to argue? You know, more you argue more the kick feels legit. You and them just didn't mixed. As said above, the kick was a good thing for you both.

About apartment, I'd suggest next time to wait enough time you and your next fc have settled and things are going good.

It is more than normal that someone new in a FC is "in trial", nobody knows you and to make a feeling it needs time.

[Tint]

Allow me to explain why this isn't a good reason. In the business world you don't fire someone for "oh billy doesn't like you" that's harassment. I carry my self with dignity and repose. I was never hostile towards anyone, I was helpful ( ran dungeons with our newer members) and I was encouraging when some of our older members wanted to branch out and form their own fc.

the very accusation "you weren't helpful" will not hold up in any world of social propriety. and "some people didn't like you" is more than enough ammunition to file a report. which I did.

this is not work, this is a game. do you call the cops when people don't want to play football with you and don't want you in their team? even when you are good at football? filling a report because you were kicked out of your FC is not that different.

and you said they kicked you within your preliminary time. not even a buisness has to give you any reason for kicking you during a preliminary time. so yes, they can kick you because billy doesn't like you. and if you and billy have to work together in a team, it's not even that unreasonable.

[LineageRazor]

In the business world you don't fire someone for "oh billy doesn't like you" that's harassment.

It's really not a good idea to assume that a FC is going to be anything like the business world. Some FCs are all business, but many - probably even the vast majority - are more like social clubs. FCs would like their members to hang out together and have fun. Depending on the FC, you wouldn't necessarily have to have a bad attitude for folks to decide that you're not fitting in with the group. I know from personal, real-life experience that even just not being social in the RIGHT WAYS can be enough to get you excluded from a group.

Don't take it personally if the group decided that you just weren't a good fit. They were probably right - and that's not to imply ANYTHING negative about your own attitude. Some folks just don't mesh well together, and you're probably better off finding another group that's a better fit for you.

As for Sneaky McShadypants, I highly doubt that he had anything directly to do with your dismissal from the group. I, too, have not heard the phrase "trade down" used in this game; it's possible that, as others have said, this person wanted you to help trade items to an alt character. I'm not sure.

As for the lost 300k, that sucks to be sure, but even if it seems to be a lot of money now, trust me when I say it's a drop in the bucket in the long run. Also, I believe you can recover any furnishings that were lost when the room was demolished; I think there's an NPC in the housing district that holds them for you.