Ok, you want to see the hostility?
(which can be reworded to My argument isn't faulty because I don't think it is)
(Scroll down to see the attitudes towards those who try and have a good attitude)
(this was in response to attitude shown on the forums)
(Scroll down to see said allowances)
(Overblown, exaggeration of attacks that were not malicious)
And the posts that we have been making?
In response to someone with a positive attitude:Wow I think you are doing absolutely amazing. Your attitude is so great too I wouldn't even mind if you were only managed to do 10 DPS in a whole run.Not every "non-DPS" healer is like that, and we can unanimously agree that healers who idle are terrible. It is this kind of hostility and accusation that forms these threads, and I'd rather avoid attacking people and scaring off healers who are potentially not skilled enough, but are open to improvement.Well everyone here acknowledges that other players have aptitude and some don'tIn response to a healer who wasn't confident (those who you are championing to defend):At the risk of stretching this out; have a look over my logs, I'll be the first to admit that I'm a crummy DPS when it comes to progression content but yet I do absolutely fine.I think you might be a bit overly careful here.I've done some Savage and Extreme learning parties lately and with DF or PF pugs they tend to be messy enough that healers are busy just healing at start, and that's fine
No, the "lazy healer" comments have been directed to the healers who refuse to be helpful to their party when they could all along. The "lol no I won't DPS because I'm a healer, I'll just /moogledance while I watch you work for our group goals instead" crowd. And this has been explained again and again in this thread.To sum up the argument:No one is going to (or at least they definitely shouldn't) give you a hard time on this, especially since you're talking about doing dungeons and not trying to join a Savage static.
no one has ever advocated nor blamed your lack of DPS relative to this supposed statics deficiency. That is your assumption.Tbh I think 90% of players wont even realise that if it's outside of EX Primal or Savage Alex, so you shouldn't worry too much about it.
That isn't even the problem at all, at least not for most people. It is absolutely fine to play it safe and careful if you are not familiar with the situation.
Like Lambdafish said before: It's the attitude that counts!
To conclude: you have a lot of predetermined assumptions about the community and that comes across negatively here, the fact that your arguement doesn't correlate with the evidence shows this assumption. And the hostility comes when people point out that this assumption makes your point objectively incorrect.
Theres a tonne more but I have already wasted too much time on this post that will only be met with "Stop insulting me".
Anyway, enough lowering myself to the negativity for me, anyone want to positively talk about healing?