As a FC owner, and as someone who wants an entire estate separate from it- I agree. I do not fault my members for putting their own spin on the place, but it's not what I would personally want to call my own. My room in the estate is more of a joke room for people to enter. But for my own needs a M sized estate would do nicely. I could decorate it, and I know that there will be some one who enjoys house touring as much as I do somewhere out there to see it.
Even if the owner doesn't log in for a month, doesn't mean they didn't put love and effort into it. And I'm quite sure the amount of players buying up homes and leaving them 100% empty just to say "screw you" is at low number. I'm on a very populated server so getting a home that isn't in The Goblet is a rarity. But I still held out and managed to snag one.