First of all, I'm of the belief that the penalty should be say a 12 hour ban from the entire game for dropping out of group content. I dunno, I feel like the current punishment isn't strict enough (be glad I only said that, when I did it, I believed it warranted a permanent ban from the game without appeal. Yes, I've even reported myself to a GM for it to try and make that happen.)

Secondly, in your situation, a report would just go down as difference in playstyle most likely. So unfortunately, suck up the penalty I'm afraid. But I can agree it's one area that needs to be worked on, but I don't know what SE can do.

Thirdly, on the point of queueing up for different things... in RF you can only queue for one duty at a time, just like roulettes. I wonder why?