DF Tanks and Whm

[PArcher]

its not that hard lol, I don't main a tank but can easily pull off 1K+ dps with with ilvl250 as a MT in alex A9-A12

No, its not if you have healers who can keep you up and keep the party up. If your healers, DPS or other tank are derps, standing in stuff, not killing adds, etc, and you don't get heals tanking, you're going to die. Tank stance can save you there (especially on WAR with those OP self heals in Defiance).

Also

WHM that likes to spam medic II and pull aggro.

If you're a good tank, no-one in DF will pull aggro from you. Even when full-on DPSing. If you lose aggro, its all on you.

Heck, even in Savage the main tank is expected to keep aggro and DPS.