It looks like the OP checked out around page 2, leaving us with this lovely discussion

If I can add anything, even though the OP is seemingly trying to be civil, and respectful, the way she talks about XIV just kind of rubs me the wrong way. These kind of things almost always escalate, so I don't believe being shunned from three LSs was a sudden thing. If I had to hear day after day how the content isn't difficult, or XI is SO good this, and XI is SO good that; and/or all this grinding is for nothing; it would seriously wear on my nerves. And I played and loved XI for five years!

It's being a Debbie-downer. They bring the rain, and nobody is fond of these types. If I showed her comments towards difficulty in this game to my static after wiping to Odin multiple times last night, they'd rage.