Some annoying behaviors and perceptions

[Sigiria]

Might want to add those white mages, summoners or machinists who constantly push the monsters away from the group. Everytime the cooldown is up WOOSH away from everyone else just because they can. .

Kinda remind me of another type of annoying player. The melee on the second boss of the city of Mhach that get the mark for the exploding circle who think his dps is so important he absolutely can't step down for 10 seconds and rather have all the dps move away from the boss to avoid the attack, but at least we got his dps which must totally be over what the 10 other melees would have done if they didn't have to move...

[MilesSaintboroguh]

People that stand in the stupid. Not gonna waste MP on a person who chooses to not move out of the stupid.

[Riardon]

I'm guilty of this one, but that's because I have no interest in making friends with you.

I'm not saying I want to be real life buddies with you or make you open your heart and tell me what issues you have with your GF/BF/Job or whatever. Heck I don't ask for conversation too. A polite greeting is enough. It's matter of politeness. We are not bots. It's the only online game that I played that feels really lonely sometimes. There is no need to be chatty. Just polite. You are teaming up with real people not with NPCs. But the no talk thing really bothers me when people are first time and never say or ask for help. Then we end up dieing because that person didn't know what to do. We could avoid at if he asked for directions. Silence really kills at those situations.

[Riardon]

Maybe you didn't understand what he was saying, bringing back the mob to the tank as a healer or dps because you managed to get the aggro is actually less dangerous.
Seen a few tanks running after a mob they lost pulling the pack out of dps aoe, toward ranged dps and healer, get them cleaved real good, and lose the other mobs while trying to get the aggro on that one mob that ran away.
If the guy that got the aggro just come close enough to the tank's aggro aoe none of this should happen

Shame I didn't film those times the healer literally ran with a pack of mobs all the way back to the entrance of dungeon. I seriously mean they ran away. Like half the dungeon all the way back. Then he died. For those times I was speaking about.

[dinnertime]

I just hate people that never listen when being lectured from their mistakes. Most of them never talk, too.

I also HATE people who leave right when the duty starts without a single world and people who AFK for more than 5 minutes (Although I'll forgive it if it's something reasonable).

[Chrysy]

a thing that i've seen that i hate is when someone trashes another person for "doing bad at their job" when said member is doing worse at their job than the person they're trashing. example: tank bashing a dps for making a single mistake while constantly losing aggro

[Snugglebutt]

There are a lot of bad assumptions by the OP and some others in here about specific groups in this thread. For example as another person already pointed out the so called scared tank type mentioned is quite often due to that tank waiting on specific cool downs or maybe he has noticed the healer and/or DPS are TP or MP starved, another is about the DPS AoE group which in reality as a DPS myself I target single mobs in large groups when I am TP starved and I am pretty sure that is also the case for many others.

I might also target single mobs in a large group if that large group is right before a boss in order to have enough TP for my initial wildfire rotation right after move on to the boss given tanks don't always wait for the groups TP/MP regen in my experience when reach a boss. I will sometimes not use some of my GCD skills too in the prior large group of generic mobs before a boss for the same reason as mentioned above in order to have them ready for the main fight coming up right after.

Something else I take issue with by the OP is the 'ghost' group he mentions. As someone who does quite often merely say hiya, hey or hello at the start of the run but does not talk for the rest...as far as I am concerned I set a polite tone by acknowledging the others at the start and greeting them already; if the run is going smoothly then I see no reason to talk just for the sake of talking. Most of the people I will never see again due to being cross-server DF runs most of the time, I feel no need to build a long lasting friendship with them. Just being polite and greeting them is fine yet I still fall into his 'ghost' group based on his initial post.

[Lone-wolfe-02]

Why does it bother you if nobody says hello?, let their actions do the talking.

[MistyMew]

I rarely ever say anything beyond hello in a dungeon anymore (unless some twat gets rude to the group or an individual,then I have no choice but to point out the error of their ways)

I'm very talkative irl, tooo talkative tbh lol.

But in games I'm quiet, just my nature really, I used to try and chat more in dungeons but 99.9999% of the time I never got a reply so I don't bother anymore, and I'm OK with it too now, its all good wont judge anyone by the amount they talk or don't talk.
It is only rl close friends that I regularly chat with in games.

the scared tanks are hilarious yup. ...but its those that go away to eat that tick me off, totally rude and disrespectful omg lol

[Zigabar]

I just hate people that never listen when being lectured from their mistakes. Most of them never talk, too.

I hate players that lecture. Simple one sentence on a mechanic is usually enough, or, if it's just 1 time, that person probably knows they dun goofed and don't need you to point it out.