think i'll meld like this.. comes 7 control short and gets all the cp and crafts (except for the body..). requires 6 Competence V and 6 Command V materia with no grade V overmelds.

Code:
hands, head		max melded
7 control
4 control
3 control
5 crafts
5 crafts		

legs, feet		max melded
7 control
4 control
4 cp
3 control
2 crafts		

body			short 2 control and a bunch of crafts
11 crafts
11 crafts
4 control
4 control
4 control		

waist			short 2 control
10 crafts
4 control
4 control
4 control
4 cp			

rings			max melded
7 control
4 cp
5 crafts
5 crafts
2 control		

neck, earring, wrist	short 1 control
10 crafts
4 control
4 control
4 cp
4 cp