A Word of Caution

[Kata]

Thank you all for the supportive and kind words. My problem is that this jerk can stalk me on the lodestone as well. It makes no sense that he has the tools available to him to continue his psychotic behaviour and I'm told to /blist and ignore. When I check my email and there are horribly nasty things waiting for me from him making accusations, attacking me and lashing out it's pretty damn obvious he's still stalking me/my character. Even having the follower request in place does me no good as he's been /following since 1.0

People keep saying things like let it go. Move on. Stop letting him get to you. But my thought is if I stay silent he gets to victimize someone else. I feel horrible for my involvement already in his cheating ways I cannot be part of allowing him to disrespect any other women. I'm sorry but I'm not some pathetic meek sad little girl who's going to slink away and let the monster hurt another gamer.

Question - why is it the community rallies together to spread the word to out those who steal from FC banks, are trash tanks, rage quit mid-dungeon but when the time comes to stand up to a bully it is easier to point the finger at the victim rather than the perpetrator?!