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  1. #21
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    Quote Originally Posted by Powe View Post
    If the E-mails involve say something about threatening you, you could bring it to the police. Depending on how long he's been sending you that stuff he could be put on a restraining order and possibly be restricted from using the internet.
    I suppose YEARS over 70,000+ emails (though not all threatening) would be evidence enough. I appreciate the advice! I'll gather the screenshots I have as well as the links to my requests regarding name change/stalking issues (from this forum 8-31-2013!!) to show just how long this has been happening to me. Thanks again.
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  2. #22
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kata View Post
    I suppose YEARS over 70,000+ emails (though not all threatening) would be evidence enough. I appreciate the advice! I'll gather the screenshots I have as well as the links to my requests regarding name change/stalking issues (from this forum 8-31-2013!!) to show just how long this has been happening to me. Thanks again.
    70,000!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, yea um I'm pretty sure the police can and definitely will do something based on the pure amount of emails alone, and who knows they might find out he's been doing this to other women and if he threaten them in email and such, hopefully court case.
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  3. #23
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kata View Post
    Question - why is it the community rallies together to spread the word to out those who steal from FC banks, are trash tanks, rage quit mid-dungeon but when the time comes to stand up to a bully it is easier to point the finger at the victim rather than the perpetrator?!
    Because apparently, a lot of people value pixels more than people's feelings sadly enough ...
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  4. #24
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kata View Post
    Question - why is it the community rallies together to spread the word to out those who steal from FC banks, are trash tanks, rage quit mid-dungeon but when the time comes to stand up to a bully it is easier to point the finger at the victim rather than the perpetrator?!
    Think it may also be that those are usually accompanied with pictures and proof, like that they took all that stuff and ditched the FC where in this situation the only people who know whats going on is between you and him. He says vs she says kinda thing. Just my idea on it.
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  5. #25
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    Just call the cops, show them the emails etc. I think things are out of hand and kata there is only so Much game masters can do. Wake up and call the cops.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Millerna View Post
    Because apparently, a lot of people value pixels more than people's feelings sadly enough ...
    That explains the cult like behavior for cat people butts and glamour.
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  7. #27
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    Yes, what he's doing to you, even if it's online, should be grounds enough for a restraining order as someone mentioned. Potentially even a domestic violence restraining order since you two were in a relationship. He may not have physically hurt you, but he's done other ways. As you said, this is harassment and stalking and there have been laws in place to for online bullying/ harrassment, too.

    Your situation goes beyond what mods can and you'll have to get law enforcement involved to get this person to stop.
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  8. #28
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    Thank you all for the replies, I've taken your advice along with the advice of a pretty smart and badass lady from Facebook who suggested an IP block. Let's hope this is the end of him and his psycho behaviour once and for all!! ^-^
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  9. #29
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kata View Post
    Thank you all for the replies, I've taken your advice along with the advice of a pretty smart and badass lady from Facebook who suggested an IP block. Let's hope this is the end of him and his psycho behaviour once and for all!! ^-^
    I still think he has many ways to harras you, so police is first thing you should do if/when it happens again.
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  10. #30
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kata View Post
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    Its good to see that you still have fun in game tho! Never give up :P
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