I see a lot of observations pointing the finger at the content of the game blaming the content and its unfair difficulty. I want reverse this argument and make the statement, can we as players become more capable?

Is it FFXIV culture to be impatient with slow learners, is it practice to join a instance with no preparation (this covers a multitude of resources, in-game items like potions and food, out-of-game voice chat tool to enhance the groups raid awareness and camaraderie), is it commonplace for people to hide behind their anonymity and put in less effort in hopes that the capability of others can still defeat the trial.

As a final fantasy title, I had assumed that the populace would be of an older generation do to the titles long standing history but hearing all this makes me feel like either a whole new demographic has taken over and all past FF fans have left or we are children guided as adults.