I played wow for years as well, found horrors in all 3 of the roles. Bad players are going to be bad, would you be happy if healers or dps got huge general buff in dps to compensate or are you just mad that you aren\\\\'t as the tank? How about all dps classes get double damage just in case? Why should 1 tank job be the lone crutch?

You touched on another key problem. Parses. Everyone on console can\\\\'t even parse themselves, it would be great if it was self viewed or toggled to share. I have to ask someone to parse me when I want it done. So someone plays and things die, they have no idea how far behind they are. Unfortunately those who can exclusively parse have a tendency to go elitist and get mad when they aren\\\\'t topping regardless of their actual role. In the end tanks are made to be tanks, not armored dps with constant mitigation