Funny that, where i live I have an arsonistic alcoholic mother living next door with her druggie son, on the other side there's a nosey moo who goes around spreading rumours about everyone, across the road there's some total prat who swings around the corner of the street on the wrong side of the road even though it's a blind corner.
I feel no desire to associate these people or develop any type of long-term relationship with them, yet I am still the way I am. Possibly because of the extra isolation from disliking most people in my area (for perfectly legitimate reasons) I reach out and try to be nice to those I find aren't.... for lack of a better word... idiots. I guess in a sense you could say even I'm affected by 'the happiness of gaining', as I'm more happy when I gain friends and can share lifes experiences with them.
Still a lot of people do seem to imagine villages through stereotypes now, they aren't like the small communities they used to be back 'once upon a time'. Many of the things spread around in todays world promotes or causes negativity. Think about it, when was the last time you heard a 'happy' song on the radio? when was the last time you saw a 'happy' program on terrestrial television? Even childrens cartoons are infested with negativity nowadays, always focusing on action fight scenes and violence, even disney can't escape it. you'll never get the funny childrens comedies like back when we had Trap Door or Transylvanian Pet Shop. It's mostly quiz shows where someone is trying to outdo someone else, reality T.V shows where judges sit around being rude to people just because they slipped on a note whilst trying to sing Blondie, or soap operas where nobody smiles and everybodies cheating on everybody else and getting into arguements. That kind of stuff is not healthy for the human brain, and that's why I avoid that stuff, and possibly why I'm a generally happier person because of it.
And the only time you're going to hear a properly happy and upbeat song that makes you feel good now is when the radio plays Queen's 'Don't Stop Me Now' on very rare occassions. Seriously, if you know the words to that song, load up that link and sing along and see how good you feel, you'll be smiling before the song even starts!
So I don't think the whole problem is inherently within the human genus, I think most of the problem is the content people experience in todays world. This could also account for the way people act in video games, like when people insult each other on CoD or how... most of the trade chat is entirely negative in WoW, in fact WoW is a haven for pure negativity and due to how huge it's player-base became, a lot of people that still play it or have left have been affected by it in a bad way.
P.S sorry for typing my own wall of text XD




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