I love gathering in this game and I do not find this topic offensive.

Here are some ideas I had for Diadem to help BOTH DoW/M and DoL while in Diadem:

1. All items found in Diadem are trade-able between party member that were active during the drop. If you were afk, or not originally in the party, during the drop you may not trade.
2. Allow ilvl 120, 140, and 160 gathering gear to drop from chests that come from gathering nodes.
3. If you are a DoL when a DoW/M item drops, you cannot roll on it--all you can do is pass.
4. If you are a DoW/M when a DoL item drops, you cannot roll on it--all you can do is pass.
5. If you have been AFK >= 5 mins you can not roll on gear until the AFK has been removed. If you are AFK again within 5 minutes, you will have a 20 minute penalty to roll on items. Penalty can be removed once participation > total amount of time afked / total party participation.
6. DoL items found in Diadem can only be 'need' rolled by the person who found the item, all other DoLs in party can only greed.
7. Participation for monster kills in Diadem are dictated by damage relative to the amount of DoW/M players in party. (example: if only 1 DoW/M in party, they receive 7x the amount of 'participation' when fighting mobs.)
8. If you are afk in Diadem for >= 15 minutes you receive an irreplaceable title for the remainder of the run that EVERYONE can see: "Diadem's Finest".

I have only ran Diadem a few times. Found it incredibly dull for DoW/M but to be incredibly fun for DoL. These are just some quick ideas and have no idea if they would really work. I just would like to see that you could bring 7 DoL and 1 DoW (or vice versa) and for everyone to benefit and have an enjoyable time.