For most veteran players, helping a new player once a blue moon isn't a problem. Back in FFXI, if someone needed to down shadow lord, there was always someone around to help out. The resentment in FFXIV:ARR isn't towards the new player, but the content itself. We are required to run the content so much in this game that most of it becomes a chore to do. It's not that they hate the new player. The vet has to do the content whether he likes to or not in order to advance.