Vote-kicked for explaining 1st-timer tactics and having impatients get what's coming

[Naliee]

Sorry bud, but you're mistaken. The tank does not set the flow. Regardless of what you might think, there are 4 ppl in the dungeon. Not just you. The party sets the flow. If 3 ppl want to you to pull another set of mobs, then do it. If the healer is pulling another mob, it means he knows he can keep you alive. If that happens then you, the tank, shouldn't have this mentality of, "if you want to tank it then go ahead." I'm tired of the "me, me, me" mindset. You're playing an mmo with other ppl. The party sets the flow. If you want to set your own pace, please go player a single player game

You are right, there is 3 other people with you in that dungeon. But it's a respectful thing to do that if tank pulls only one set you don't go running around pulling more.

Maybe tank is first timer?
Maybe tank is tanking for the first time?
Maaaybe tank isn't that confident about his/her skills to pull bigger pulls?
Maybe, just MAYBE tank doesn't think/"trust" that group can kill fast enough big pulls that CDs don't run out and healer knows what to do?

I main WHM and tanking doesn't come that naturally for me but I really enjoy DRK. And I can honestly say that if you go ahead and pull more than I have, I most likely let you tank those mobs.