Vote-kicked for explaining 1st-timer tactics and having impatients get what's coming

[Syrehn]

I'd heal them because they'd take a hit that only a tank should be taking and would immediately pull aggro off of one or two of the enemies because the tank, again, was not ready. And then I would die, and the party would wipe.

This right here enables the problem. I have long ago stopped healing stupid DPS doing stupid pulls that the rest of the group isn't ready for. The more healers/tanks that stop attempting to heal/save those players and just let them hit the floor the more likely they won't do it in the future.

I know, it sounds like a dick thing to do but.... tough healer/tank love.