Ranting of a disappointed player (?)

[Zivren]

@Garlyle - He actually caused 2 wipes with that in reference to the WHM. For the BLM, fair enough, I can agree with that side of the debate.

@UltimateAoe2 - I actually edited them out. I was angry, and I 'sincerely' apologize if I seem like the worst kind of player to you since I'm human and naturally feel emotions like most people do. But thanks though, I'm sure you're one of the better players out there who have the justice to make note of that kind of mistake.

@Everyone else - Honestly I just want to know if this is really something common. Even then, it's difficult to deal with at times. Being told to relax only gets a person so far when it happens repeatedly (this is actually for dailies). The name shout-outs was my fault for sure, and I'm owning up to it and corrected it.

[Garlyle]

@Garlyle - He actually caused 2 wipes with that in reference to the WHM.

Fair enough then.

Either way, I think every player's got bad habits. It's very rare I can't pick up on something someone does. Some are major, "Did this DPS really just get hit with this mechanic?" "Really, tank? No cooldowns on a massive pull and you want me to heal you through it?" "Holy crap this other healer is literally only using Medica II"; some are more minor, some are definitely more visible than others. And every player tends to include ourselves, even though we think we're faultless; other players are probably picking up on things that we're not even noticing, and there's always more we can be doing better. A lot of the times it isn't even that players are going out of their way to be a bad - it's just that it's never occured to them.
(I'll admit straight up - I went to MNK 50 without ever touching another role, and I learned a lot about playing a DPS from experiencing things from the healer/tank roles)

And remembering that and being ready to just shrug it off and move on is part of the deal, really. There're going to be players who just aren't ready for the content they're attempting and it's going to kind of suck, but, everyone's been there at some point.