TO get around the 1000 character limit, just post the first few hundred characters, then edit the post to add the rules.

It's weird.

As for tanking... that's how it works in this game. Everything is your fault, all the time, and everyone wants you to do things there way. Nothing you've described is your fault, but its just how people treat tanks in this game. If you can't handle it now, you may want to find another class.