there's a lot of sensitive people in this game

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Because the onus is on the sensitive person to change their ways and not the jerks. Got it.

Well a jerk is a jerk, but someone who is pitifully sensitive views any kind of criticism coming from someone they don't know as a jerk.

You're being just as overly sensitive as the people who kicked you.

for some reason i just don't think that kicking someone for opening their mouth and presuming that they are asking you to do something you do not want to do is in equal measure to being upset that there are people who instantly fly to the conclusion that you are acting like a punk.

it is not an exaggeration to say that the best way to get along with randoms is to shut up and say absolutely nothing - because we tolerate this type of antisocial behavior.

For example, queued up for Expert Roulette a few weeks ago. It had been a while since I last played and I died in an AoE I was expecting to be able to stun. The key point here, is that I forgot Holy stuns. So the healer comments on my death, saying I could try not to stand in things. And I quickly retort that people could just not use stun in their rotation.

Obviously I realize Holy stuns after opening my big mouth and explained that I forgot and was expecting to be able to stun the aoe. This is not personal for me, but the healer is obviously very offended even though I have already apologized and said "my bad" etc. but they just wanted to keep going on and on and on when there was nothing else to discuss.

It's like, at no point was this vulgar or personal on my end, but the healer was just so ridiculously upset about it. =|

They could have kicked me, they probably wanted to. Just because I had a fucking momentary lapse in judgment. It was such a shitty feeling to leave with. I hate it when people try to justify an attitude that make 4 man dungeons an environment where we are all walking on thin ice, it is not good for the game.