Divorce...

[HeroSamson]

can still use that very ring to teleport to whomever they were married to, despite the other individual.

Even if they did, whats going to stop them from teleporting to the crystal in the same zone you are in and finding you?

Each zone has a crystal, its as I said before no matter what they will end up stalking you regardless if you have ring or not.

[Saigwa]

Even if they did, whats going to stop them from teleporting to the crystal in the same zone you are in and finding you?

Each zone has a crystal, its as I said before no matter what they will end up stalking you regardless if you have ring or not.

Because as I've stated earlier, it is different where they can teleport STRAIGHT TO YOU vs teleporting to the map and having to FIND you. Good luck trying to find someone doing stuff in whatever map, as they could be in town, gathering,leveling, fates, leves, ect. But if you had the ring, you teleport right BESIDE their character.
If I were in lavender beds, it wouldn't show WHERE I was in lavender beds. You would have to essentially look through ALL the wards and ALL the divisions to find my character. With the teleport ring, you just use it every 30 mins and you are on my character's butt.

If a person is absolutely set on stalking another individual for whatever malicious intent, SE should NOT make it easier for that person to do so because of the flawed divorce system.

[HeroSamson]

You remind me of this guy in FFXI who got married on the game and his Woman in Real Life got mad after she found out, so the person dropped his ring and told the girl he married to leave him alone, though she didn't wanna drop her ring and followed him and he was getting pissed complaining about it cause his girl was giving him issues cause the girl on game wouldn't stop showing up and getting him in trouble.

So who do you think is at fault, the guy miss leading a girl character on the game into something or the girl who didn't wanna drop the ring and started to stalk him?

Everyone told him in my shell that if he was already with someone in real life and she was against it he shouldn't even done it from the start.

So moral of the story don't get into a relationship that has this sort of thing happen and its just a game don't take it serious, the person doesn't know your street address or real name or phone number its not like they are going to show up at your work or door step.

Also you said it would be hard to find you with all that stuff going on, so if they had the ring teleport and you were doing those things and had them black listed what are the chances of you paying attention to what they are doing?

Another thing maps are tiny and some zones have 2 crystals not very hard to find locations if you know spawn points and area's where you'll be in the game not many spots to hang out.

Anyways I am done talking about this seems like a small issue to me.

[LionKing]

Blist the stalker, turn off the name plates. Congratulations, now the stalker is just one of many characters standing around you. And if you still this as a problem, then probably you are the problem. Ever heard of the word "Obsessed"???? Yes my friend, you are obsessed with your stalker.

[EricCartmenez]

<snip> I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. <snip>

An ulterior motive that seemed to backfire? I'm sure if you put in a ticket to explain the situation, there is the possibility that they might nullify the capabilities, but you can't refute the fact that you entered into this virtual pact for all the wrong reasons. The other person paid the fees (ed. traded real money for in game glamour items - within the boundaries of the rules of the game, since it was through the Mog Station) and you reaped the benefits. Other than all the stuff you got courtesy of this persons real money, there was only one thing that they could expect in the end - to teleport to you every 30 min. There's no shared gil, property, or items.

The reaction you are giving here is why they haven't made it so that an eternally bonded couple can't dip into each other's things. I'll be honest, I never thought about someone actually entering into the eternal bonding system for the sake of stuff like you did. Ugh.

[edited to add] I actually know someone in game who did stuff in real life for the sake of gil then regretted the outcome as well. I should be shocked by what you did, but knowing someone who promised nude photos in trade for gil... Well, I guess RMT pales in comparison. The lesson here isn't that SE needs to fix the divorce system, it's in the motivation that drives someone who wants a piece of glamour gear so bad that they are willing to take advantage of someone else to get it, then they don't want to suffer the consequences.

[Kasathar]

My advise: Don't get drunk in Costa Del Sol. Stuff that happens there, never stays there!

[Recaldy]

Why did we need this abused flavor-of-the-month content again?

[abzoluut]

Friend wanted the stuff, and was willing to pay for the marriage to get the stuff. Like MANY individuals a lot of ppl just found random ppl to marry to get the clothing/mount/minion items.

Yeah, that's what they say to convince you. You fell for it! xD

[Ametrine]

We kept asking for it.

Despite the OP's individual situation, he has pointed out a loophole in the system. Yoshi-P stated that marriage was mostly for RP, but, in a practical gameplay sense, it allows you fast access to someone you should reasonably be frequently playing with, so that the teleport is useful, fluff aside.

I guess I empathize with OP a bit becuase I had a relationship go sour, and the only means of escape from his stalking was to jump servers and change my name, something others with an established group to play with may not want to have to do.

[Dererk]

Hire a lawyer I'm guessing a scholar then come to an agreement with asset distribution like in real life you 2 have any kids in the marriage?