Divorce...

[Saigwa]

which is the issue he's pointing out. if the relationship turns sour, one of the spouses can stalk the other.

Finally someone gets it. More than half these posts are about my own situation which I could care less about since, as I pointed out, I married a friend. My issue is the fact that the system can easily be abused due to the fact that Person A can still utilize the full benefits of the marriage despite Person B having a divorce. Being able to have someone you dont like teleport to you INSTANTLY every 30 mins vs someone having to search an entire map for you is completely different.
I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. This is addressed to individuals with actual relationships that can go downwind.

[HeroSamson]

Finally someone gets it. More than half these posts are about my own situation which I could care less about since, as I pointed out, I married a friend. My issue is the fact that the system can easily be abused due to the fact that Person A can still utilize the full benefits of the marriage despite Person B having a divorce. Being able to have someone you dont like teleport to you INSTANTLY every 30 mins vs someone having to search an entire map for you is completely different.
I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. This is addressed to individuals with actual relationships that can go downwind.

Because you edited your post when everyone posted already.

Also you say you don't care if you get stalked by a friend but then again you care?

You make no sense, you say that is can be abused when and where and who?

If you say your friend then you don't mind which isn't a issue and It sounds like you are making a issue out of a drop of milk, its not like everyone is gonna do what your friend did and refuse to drop a ring.

Are you simply trying to ruin the teleporting option for others by trying to make it a issue?

[Saigwa]

Because you edited your post when everyone posted already.

Also you say you don't care if you get stalked by a friend but then again you care?

You make no sense, you say that is can be abused when and where and who?

If you say your friend then you don't mind which isn't a issue and It sounds like you are making a issue out of a drop of milk, its not like everyone is gonna do what your friend did and refuse to drop a ring.

Are you simply trying to ruin the teleporting option for others by trying to make it a issue?

You are still missing my point: I care about this issue because it is a FLAW in the system that can ALLOW POSSIBLE harassment.

Who can it be abused by? Obviously you and many others have not taken the time to read my posts. I've said it again, and again, that it is possible this can be abused by individuals who wish to harass other players. For the 3rd time on this forum, I give my example: Person A and Person B are in a relationship. They marry in game. Relationship goes sour and Person A decides to leave person B entirely, but Person B is an asshole and decides to stalk Person A in game by utilizing the eternity ring.

I am not making a big deal out of this, when it is an issue that is already existant IN REAL LIFE. We don't need this kind of nonsense IN GAME. I don't know if you have ever had a relationship go bad, but people are only human. There is BOUND to be somebody who would maliciously use this function. I know I am not addressing the majority here, as most people who have went through with the marriage system are probably in a healthy relationship - be it friendship or love - with the other individual, but this is a loophole which could give fire to UNHEALTHY relationships.

No, I am not "trying to ruin the teleporting option for others". The teleporting system is a great benefit to players who are married. Am I trying to ruin the teleporting option for potential harassers? Yes.

They think everyone is gonna stalk, though it wont happen.

The guy already stated he doesn't mind his friend stalking him, which makes it a non issue but then accuses everyone that they will stalk and it will be a issue when it hasn't even happened.

Do tell me where I said EVERYONE is going to stalk each other. I think you are taking my point a bit too personally, since I never once said that this would be abused by EVERYONE to harass individuals. I like logic, not emotion. Why wait for an incident to happen before you fix it, when it could be adverted entirely?

[HeroSamson]

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I am not digging too deep or personal, basically it won't be abused.

I am saying not a lot of people are going to think the same way, how is it going to be abused?

First you would have to meet a creeper and I am sure that if just a hint of creeper was in that person they wouldn't get bond with that said person, I am sure people do it with others they known for a long time, people actually meet in other games, sure there will be that one turd out of the bunch but really how easy would it be just to ignore that person.

Lets say a person gets stalked best solution black list even if they teleported to your location what then, nobody is breaking my hand to look at the computer screen to see
what they are doing, then just Duty up and play the game and pay no attention at all then of course after a while they just get tired of trying to get attention and move on.

I don't see it being abused I don't see how when like I said nobody is twisting your arm to get you to look at them on the screen or reply back.

One thing more even if you get the teleport off the ring, whats stopping them from using regular teleports to follow you, each place has a crystal.

[Vondoomervil]

You are still missing my point: I care about this issue because it is a FLAW in the system that can ALLOW POSSIBLE harassment.

I am not making a big deal out of this, when it is an issue that is already existant IN REAL LIFE. We don't need this kind of nonsense IN GAME. I don't know if you have ever had a relationship go bad, but people are only human. There is BOUND to be somebody who would maliciously use this function. I know I am not addressing the majority here, as most people who have went through with the marriage system are probably in a healthy relationship - be it friendship or love - with the other individual, but this is a loophole which could give fire to UNHEALTHY relationships.

Dude, You're making an Issue out of nothing. There is no problem here, and it is not a flaw. What the hell lol Blist them /thread.

[EricCartmenez]

<snip> I get it, I reap what I sow... which isn't much of anything since it was a FRIEND and it was for shits and giggles, as well as gil. <snip>

An ulterior motive that seemed to backfire? I'm sure if you put in a ticket to explain the situation, there is the possibility that they might nullify the capabilities, but you can't refute the fact that you entered into this virtual pact for all the wrong reasons. The other person paid the fees (ed. traded real money for in game glamour items - within the boundaries of the rules of the game, since it was through the Mog Station) and you reaped the benefits. Other than all the stuff you got courtesy of this persons real money, there was only one thing that they could expect in the end - to teleport to you every 30 min. There's no shared gil, property, or items.

The reaction you are giving here is why they haven't made it so that an eternally bonded couple can't dip into each other's things. I'll be honest, I never thought about someone actually entering into the eternal bonding system for the sake of stuff like you did. Ugh.

[edited to add] I actually know someone in game who did stuff in real life for the sake of gil then regretted the outcome as well. I should be shocked by what you did, but knowing someone who promised nude photos in trade for gil... Well, I guess RMT pales in comparison. The lesson here isn't that SE needs to fix the divorce system, it's in the motivation that drives someone who wants a piece of glamour gear so bad that they are willing to take advantage of someone else to get it, then they don't want to suffer the consequences.

[Hik0]

someone you dont like teleport to you INSTANTLY every 30 mins

dont be stupid and don't get married with someone you don't like/know.

It's the same level of stupidity than having unsafe sex affair with some stranger, if you got AIDS you're the only one to blame for being stupid in the 1st time