Divorce...

[NaliaBrown]

Let me get this straight: Person A and Person B get married and get special rings that let them teleport to each other. Person A wants out of the marriage so he gets rid of the ring. Isn't the easy answer making Person B's ring non-functional once Person A's ring is discarded? No ring, no teleport, no problem. Yet another oversight with this whole eternal bond thing.

[Saigwa]

Let me get this straight: Person A and Person B get married and get special rings that let them teleport to each other. Person A wants out of the marriage so he gets rid of the ring. Isn't the easy answer making Person B's ring non-functional once Person A's ring is discarded? No ring, no teleport, no problem. Yet another oversight with this whole eternal bond thing.

This. I'm not asking for teleport to be taken out entirely. I'm simply trying to address that the teleport be taken out when BOTH parties do not have the ring because one person is officially divorced.
I think the current divorce system is good, since it doesn't require both parties to consent. HOWEVER, the problem is that the ring of the individual who does not give up the eternal bond, can still use that very ring to teleport to whomever they were married to, despite the other individual.

This problem has nothing to do with who, how, or why you married someone in game. This is not a problem Pre or post marriage. It is a problem POST DIVORCE. Taking all emotional reasoning out (since emotion is never good to use for reasoning) and utilizing logic, as I've stated before, this is not something that will be abused by the majority of individuals whom decide to divorce. However, we. are. human. There WILL be that one individual who is sour after a bad relationship. There WILL be that one individual who will use this flawed divorce function to harass said player - as these things happen in real life, it is more than possible in game.

[HeroSamson]

can still use that very ring to teleport to whomever they were married to, despite the other individual.

Even if they did, whats going to stop them from teleporting to the crystal in the same zone you are in and finding you?

Each zone has a crystal, its as I said before no matter what they will end up stalking you regardless if you have ring or not.

[Saigwa]

Even if they did, whats going to stop them from teleporting to the crystal in the same zone you are in and finding you?

Each zone has a crystal, its as I said before no matter what they will end up stalking you regardless if you have ring or not.

Because as I've stated earlier, it is different where they can teleport STRAIGHT TO YOU vs teleporting to the map and having to FIND you. Good luck trying to find someone doing stuff in whatever map, as they could be in town, gathering,leveling, fates, leves, ect. But if you had the ring, you teleport right BESIDE their character.
If I were in lavender beds, it wouldn't show WHERE I was in lavender beds. You would have to essentially look through ALL the wards and ALL the divisions to find my character. With the teleport ring, you just use it every 30 mins and you are on my character's butt.

If a person is absolutely set on stalking another individual for whatever malicious intent, SE should NOT make it easier for that person to do so because of the flawed divorce system.

[HeroSamson]

You remind me of this guy in FFXI who got married on the game and his Woman in Real Life got mad after she found out, so the person dropped his ring and told the girl he married to leave him alone, though she didn't wanna drop her ring and followed him and he was getting pissed complaining about it cause his girl was giving him issues cause the girl on game wouldn't stop showing up and getting him in trouble.

So who do you think is at fault, the guy miss leading a girl character on the game into something or the girl who didn't wanna drop the ring and started to stalk him?

Everyone told him in my shell that if he was already with someone in real life and she was against it he shouldn't even done it from the start.

So moral of the story don't get into a relationship that has this sort of thing happen and its just a game don't take it serious, the person doesn't know your street address or real name or phone number its not like they are going to show up at your work or door step.

Also you said it would be hard to find you with all that stuff going on, so if they had the ring teleport and you were doing those things and had them black listed what are the chances of you paying attention to what they are doing?

Another thing maps are tiny and some zones have 2 crystals not very hard to find locations if you know spawn points and area's where you'll be in the game not many spots to hang out.

Anyways I am done talking about this seems like a small issue to me.

[Aegis]

the problem is that the ring of the individual who does not give up the eternal bond, can still use that very ring to teleport to whomever they were married to, despite the other individual.

And?

Unless SE implement some kind of ingame restraining order (would be funny) being near someone is not harassment. If they are mouthing off, or whatever, then have them reported because that is harassment.

The ring does nothing you cannot already do via teleport and running around on a chocobo, it just makes it faster.