The main issue isnt the queue itself, the problem we have is the lockout.
While waiting for a queue you can do nearly nothing...
With the new forced to accept we can no longer do quests, craft or leves while waiting!
But i was talking in gerneral, Chocobo levelening or the overall messed up party play settings including groupfinder...
You are locked out to play with your friends left alone waiting for the queue to leech your lifeforce out.