When is it OK to say, "It's Not OK"

[Kazumac]

I don't care about the current p.c. / coddling that goes on in today's generation. I am about whats best for the group and my self and if it hurts someone coddled persons feeling I really don't care.

I also feel the name calling and lack of real advice is quite prevalent. I think the best advice especially when you are in the thick of it is direct and pointed advice or identification of the issue. (Quite possibly we are advocating the same approach) I see far too many "player xyz your dps is horrible" vs "player xyz your damage needs to be higher during that phase. Save your raging strikes/fester/other cool downs etc."

Both call out the issue in question. One facilitates improvement. The other usually evokes a defensive response. My approach is not coddling and sure some people will take offense but at least I've left them with something they can hopefully use to improve.

[Symbiant]

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I think we have some possible comprehension issues here. In my other post; (the one you are quoting) I stated "Based off that assumption I would think that the op has tried everything in ones power to remedy in the situation"

So at this point the above what you have stated had already been applied. There comes a point when personal frustration out weighs the point of trying to improve someone. If any one tries to work with someone to the point of there own frustration then that is coddling.

Some have the belief that this kid of coddled approach will improve society but, it has proven otherwise. Crime rates are way up compared to older times. Kids going into schools shooting each other. It all comes from a coddled life.

While I do appreciate that you and others try to help people to the best of your knowledge and as I do my self but, there is a line in the sand and that's when I become mentally / emotionally involved once that occurs its time to remove the problem or remove my self from the problem.