Things that need to change for the better

[MeowyWowie]

good thing I know how to play and anyone who says L2P at this point is just an elitist prick with self esteem issues. =)

There are plenty of non "elitist pricks" getting past initial aggro of the Ogre. Some have killed it, most have surely gotten him down to 50% or less by now. You're doing something wrong. Go look around for strategies if you really can't figure it out. I find it difficult to believe that not even one person in your party is competent enough to form a decent strategy on their own. But yea, there's some decent info out there if you look for it.