People using frontlines to upgrade relic causing inbalence

[Gor]

I switched to Flames recently for the 15 days and noticed most games Flames were short on heals, that was before the cleric stance change or the patch this week...most being about 70% of the time. I largely attribute this to why they lose so much...well that and they played like crap. Maelstrom if a group is short MOST times someone changes to a healer, rarely saw that happen when I played Flames

when i swapped to Flames i often had to ask people to swap to healer, pretty much most the games. the main problem i ran into that caused me solo heal alot was that many of them had no cross classes or didn't gear up their healer. i saw most of the tanks were PLDs and were ONLY PLDs (in vit). i can understand them not having healers because there not being any healer quests in Uldah, however i have been unable to understand their reason as to why they play so bad even when they do have the healers they need. they seem very clueless in strategies and when i would tell them what to do, i'd get some smart remark telling me not to tell them what to do or how to play. they're bads and they seem to be satisfied with it.