Quote Originally Posted by Eye_Gore View Post
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If that's how you go about life... that must be such a lonely life, even when it's your work life :/

As for the OP, it's not a matter of simply being "stone cold" and "unfeeling" it's finding a perfect balance of caring about others, making friendships, but knowing when to let go if people simply need to move on. There never has been and never will be a "perfect leader", because that would require a human being to be perfect, and that simply is not possible. Humans have emotions, some choose to express theirs more than others, but life comes with good and bad. I'm sorry your FC didn't hold out, but maybe that's a sign not only your FC but you too just simply need to move on. You might not have been ready to lead an FC. Just forge better friendships next time and cherish the time you do have with your friends and allow them to simply be who they are when and if the time comes they need to go else where. If they're your friends, obviously they'll keep in touch.

GL to you and your future en devours here