A Bards point of view.

[NyneAlexander]

Well... In all honesty, it's better to do the wise thing and risk getting yelled at by an idiot, then to knowingly do the unwise thing and risk getting yelled at for BEING an idiot. The WHM was the idiot here, and you did the right thing, but saying "you might be yelled at" isn't really an excuse someone can use to avoid taking responsibility for doing the incorrect thing.

There are plenty of idiots out there, and their opinions aren't worth much. At the end of the day, though, you're your most important critic. Does your performance measure up to your expectations? Do you think you made the right calls? Did the guy yelling have a point, or was he really just an idiot?

People always forget that Holy comes with a stun effect. And when enemies are chain stunned, they can't fight back. In this instance, the healer may have been right.