extreme conflict of interest question

[Pandastirfry]

Real talk though. Have you made up your mind already as to what you'll do?

That's the trouble with these kind of "tell me what to do..." Type things.

Often the asker has already made up their mind and is not actually asking for advice, but rather validation for the decision they've made.

I know it sounds harsh OP but....
Shit or get off the pot, do what you're going to do and deal with the fallout as best you can, that's all anyone here could really give you as "advice".