I don't understand...

[Kerberon]

When I was farming my animus I didn't go and make new tanks life impossible when I got Satasha or Tam-Tara simply because they couldn't deal with the enmity dealt from Fire I crit. In fact I found use for css ruin, which I found to be hilarious, and made the new tanks job less stressful instead of being an elitist jerk and telling him he should try and force the notion of a rotation on him. I have no reason to start a players day with stress or end it with stress just to gratify my selfish needs for a piece of gear.

I started as a tank. That's a horrible way to treat a new tank. You need to treat them to what the mechanics are. Yeah you can give them a couple seconds on a pull, but not giving them advice about fast blade > savage blade, hitting flash twice to open things up and flashing again every couple combo's only hurts everyone. You hurt them as they aren't given a real situation to learn their class in. You hurt the server as there is now another tank that wasn't taught the basics at low levels. You hurt the game as people that get frustrated from bad groups may get frustrated enough to quit. You hurt everyone. You are no different in toxicity to the guy that starts swearing and calling the tank a noob. Different side of the spectrum just as harmful. Don't purposely try to pull aggro but do your normal rotation (as far as the skills that you have at that level) don't gimp yourself down to be "nice" to the tank, you aren't being nice, you are being extremely harmful.