I don't understand...

[Double]

Sure, I'll just dig into that pile of screenshots I keep around for just such an occasion. . . Oh, wait. I don't have one of those.

Then what proof do you have other than word of mouth?

There's literally threads, tons of them from people with screenshots of how badly they are treated by others who are making the same claims of many here in this one and no one seems to care as if it doesn't affect them or it's justified.

One thread, which I won't name in particular had a player who asked politely about a fight inside dungeon and got tore open a new one. You mean to tell me that's your definition of helping?

I won't even go as far as name calling, but the knee-jerk reaction from the community whenever someone is in need is exactly where the problem lies. Back in my days of FFXI, a person in need of help would gather as many helping hands as he/she possibly could and despite how many times someone helped with subjob items, people always made sure everyone had it and was on track of what needed to be done.

That sense of a strong community is practically nonexistent in this MMO.