The pull of a BLM is always very high, although a DRG and BRD pulls should be higher. If he outdpsed you on pull, then he probably had some crazy critical hits.
You fail to acknowlegde the fact that BLM has nothing of value to bring in pretty much every fight. On T8 they are decent. In all of the other content a SMN is FAR superior. You are just again one of these people who tells others bbbb-but the BLM in my team. The BLM in your team is not the norm. I have been playing with numerous Black Mages and I have never met one who REALLY outperforms me. I'm the only BLM in a linkshell that is allowed to be a BLM on fights because I know how to use the class well. I'd say that you don't have any idea what you are talking about.